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Charlotte (has) Baby Brain's avatar

I completely agree that mental health needs to be more important than maths. I've never once needed to know the square root of pi and can't remember a single time anyone outside of the classroom gave me an algebra equation and made it feel like a life or death situation.

You sound like a wonderful teacher. I'm glad you got that afternoon off to rest, and you should be really proud of how you helped the homesick student - I'm sure you'll go down in their personal history as one of the people that cared.

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Dr. Mariana Calleja Ross's avatar

I love this 10000%. As a kid, I used to feel nervous and teary a lot. It was difficult to understand or control it. I just had ZERO tools. (That's growing up in the 80's). I was always told how much of an easy-crier I was, so I grew up feeling weak and awful about it. I learned to hide and swallow every overwhelming emotion, not to mention the constant fear for being spotted for "feeling things" or wanting to cry. And of course, it only became more frequent through childhood and teen years. Now at age 42, I'm finally starting to understand what all that vulnerability was about and how it affected me, how it wasn't normal, and probably, how it was of no importance for society to talk about emotions at the time. I'm so so glad that this is slowly changing, and I want to think that many of us are now being part of creating such change. No one should ever grow without an emotional toolkit, and since there was never one before us, it's now us who can create it. Thank goodness for healing. Hadn't been an easy road but it works. And so many of us have understood how important this is, making us want to make a change within and without.

Bravo for your work! You're a gold teacher. And thanks for sharing! 💯❤️

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